`aPriL WaS HeRe aT 9:57 PM
- i duno if any1 missed out on this news..
bt there was tis couple in tw who were in a heated argument
and this resulted in the father throwing his own 10mth old child into the scalding hot water
(they run a noodle shop)
and every1 blames the father...
well.. OBVIOUSLY the father's at fault! no doubt bout tat..
bt let mi tell u bout my point of view...
the father went out for a delivery
stopped by a friend's for sum alcohol
goes back shop, late and started his cooking while playing with his 10mth old daughter in his arms
okie... so the father is a drunk who drinks in the day!
bt den again, who made a law saying tat one can onli drink at nite!
westerners drink in the day, n no1's making a fuss bout tat!
and so, the wife was very upset tat he went out drinking
so tat started the argument~
so! tis is the 1st ting i wana tok about..
why cant parents get it in their head that U SHLD NOT ARGUE INFRONT OF UR KIDS!
no matter hw young ur children are, haf u ever thought of the effect it'll haf on them?!
parents are role models for their children and has the most influence on them (the younger they are)
so can u even imagine the effect on ur child should you continuously quarrel in front of them?
they'll learn that itz okie to shout at another person
to swear at another person
to threaten another person
juz bcoz u're unhappy with them!
wat great parents u ah...
continue...
the argument continued
the mother threatened "That is your daugther! U be responsible for her!"
the dad, under the influence of the alcohol,
raised the child n seemed like he was about to throw the child into the boiling water for cooking noodles
the mother threatened again "If you have guts, if you're a man, throw her in!"
and so the dad did...
2nd ting i wana talk about...
WTF IS WRONG WITH THE PARENTS!!!!
dad... tat was ur daughter u were holding in your hands!!
no matter hw drunk u were
no matter hw heated the argument was
no matter wat..
TAT WAS UR DAUGHTER!!
UR OWN FLESH N BLOOD!!
so u juz hurt her to get back at ur wife?!
and WTF IS WRONG WIF THE MOTHER!
wat did she mean by " if u haf guts, if u're a man, throw her in"?!
so nw u WANT him to hurt ur child!
wat sorta mother r u?!
wat kinda speech ethic do u haf!
嘴濺!
now tat he did EXACTLY wat u wanted
are you happy?!
do u now regret wat u say?
pls... realli
use ur brain if u haf one...
if u wana threaten any1
n when tat person realli carry out wat u said
be ready to be responsible for the outcome...
yup! the father is at fault
tatz without a doubt
bt the mother has to be blamed too!
correct mi if i'm wrong!
realli!
i dun tink itz the 1st time tat they quarrelled infront of their children
n i dun tink itz the 1st time tat the mother threatened the father
so...
STOP USING UR CHILD AS A TOOL OF THREAT!
A CHILD IS NOT FOR U TO USE TO GET WHAT U WANT!
SO WHEN THE CHILD IS HARMED, ARE YOU GOING TO BE RESPONSIBLE
OR ARE YOU JUZ GOIN TO PUSH THE BLAME TO OTHERS?!
god..
watz happening to parents nowadays..
dun juz TOK and TRY to explain hw great u are...
prove it... using action...
`aPriL WaS HeRe aT 10:23 PM
- okie.. i'm like... back?
hahahaha!
i haf been doin blog template wif my WEDDING PIC!!
i tink will be quite nice..
ermm..
actually..
I LUV IT SO MUCH I'M GONNA SAE TAT IT'LL BE F**KING NICE!
hahahha!
buey ba...
n once i finish the html stuff, i'll update wif a very very very long entry on the wedding...
wif pics~~
i'm sorry la... so slow... bt...
hahaha! bo bian!!!
`aPriL WaS HeRe aT 1:36 AM
- he din call mi 2day...
no sms...
no calls...
din get him on the phone when i called either..
he din reply my sms..
did he leave his hp at work?
i'm worried..
=(
`aPriL WaS HeRe aT 9:57 PM